Suffering,
Compassion, Tribalism, and the Left
Why I Vote "Against My Economic
Self-Interest"
"What's the Matter with Kansas?" a 2004 bestseller asked. Thomas
Frank's book addressed why low-income whites vote Republican, "against
their economic self-interest." Leftist analysts argue that poor whites are
"white supremacists" accustomed to "white privilege;" we
suffer from "white fragility;" because of the "browning of America" we experience "white
panic;" and we vote Republican.
What's the matter with my vote? In the
most recent gubernatorial and the past four presidential elections, I voted all
five times, but only for one Democrat. Like Frank's allegedly confused Kansans,
I have voted against my own immediate economic self-interest. I do not do so
because I have floated through life on a palanquin of white privilege. Since Democrats
promise poor folk like me both money and compassion, why did I not vote for
Democrats all five times?
The left advertises itself, not only as
the party of economic handouts, but also as the party of compassion. A Google
search of "Joe Biden" and "Kindness" turns up millions of
pages. Below are the first three:
"The Kindness Is The Point. The DNC’s
Best Argument In The Time Of Coronavirus: Joe Biden, Unlike Donald Trump, Is A
Decent Man."
"Joe Biden's Radical Compassion"
"He Can Bring Back Kindness"
Leftists often don't live up to such
promises. Rather, leftists distribute resources, attention, and compassion
unequally. Compare the saturation coverage meted to Trayvon Martin. Wikipedia
devotes 71 pages to Trayvon Martin and his killing. Derrion Albert receives
three Wikipedia pages. Derrion was a Chicago honor student beaten to death, on
camera, with a railroad tie, by his classmates. Consider Jazmine Barnes, a
seven-year-old black girl. When media reported that her killer was white, her
death received international attention. When it was revealed that her killer
was black, she dropped out of sight. The skin color of the officer and of the
casualty informs choices about coverage of officer-involved-deaths. Compare Michael Brown to Justine Ruszczyk Damond to Tony Timpa.
Mere skin color is not enough to explain
patterns of leftist embrace, rejection, and vilification. Asians have recently
learned that they can be uplifted in the subject of a leftist sentence and
decapitated in that sentence's predicate.
The left's meticulous manipulation of
who receives compassion and who is cast into the outer darkness appears
chaotic, but in fact it is consistent with an underlying mythos. This
manipulation of compassion and economic resources occurs in one-on-one
encounters, it occurs in local institutions, and it occurs nationally and
internationally.
There's more at work here than
"selective outrage" or simple hypocrisy. There is an underlying
rationale carefully serviced to support leftist mythology. Reality, that is,
the power narrative, must conform to the leftist agenda, not vice versa. And
that is why, though it is often against my own, immediate, economic
self-interest, I vote Republican when I do.
Recent events prompt me to ponder anew the
question of why poor whites like me vote Republican. These events include HBO's
airing of "Allen v Farrow," the death of Metropolitan Opera
maestro James Levine, and media coverage of the March 16, 2021 Atlanta shootings.
One such event is entirely personal. In
my senior year of college, a member of my household violently and sexually
assaulted me. Such assaults had happened before. This time, I, finally, ran out
of the house. I was working as a nurse's aide, but most of my income went to
tuition. I was homeless for a while; I ate from dumpsters and leftovers diners
didn't finish in the school cafeteria.
I had purchased a budget-priced,
"fancy" pair of shoes for my student teaching assignment. I traveled
to this assignment the only way I could: I was hitchhiking. It rained. The glue
holding my new shoes together melted, and the soles separated from the body of
the shoes.
I needed to ask for help.
I had gotten the phone number of a
women's shelter from a bleary, photocopied flier taped to the wall in a ladies
room – that's what we called them, in those naïve old, days, and that's what
they were: ladies rooms. Oases for women, just women, where sexual assault
survivors could exhale, enjoy female camaraderie, and escape from the background
anxiety we feel around men.
A friend was allowing me, temporarily,
to couch surf in her apartment. I stared at the rotary phone attached to the
apartment wall. My guts were in a twist. I was about to tell an outsider, an
American (though born in America, I felt foreign), a person with some power,
truths I felt dutybound to carry to my grave. My childhood friends and I had
been raised by parents who survived immigration and the Depression. Our parents
had witnessed World War II, on the front lines of combat, and on both sides of
the fences around concentration camps. These grizzled veterans taught us that
you have to fend for yourself, your pain doesn't matter, you should never ask
for anything, and everyone hates a whiner.
The left, in contrast, extends an
invitation: "Pay attention to your pain! Take the names of those who hurt
you! Be offended easily! Spill your guts. We care. Solidarity forever! There's
no need to be afraid or ashamed! Just like in the Trust Fall
exercise, close your eyes and fall backwards! We will catch you every time!"
To accept the left's invitation and ask for help is a big deal for us.
I picked up the handset. I dialed. I
stopped breathing.
I was mindful of my natal culture's
demands for stoicism. I was determined not to cry or even whimper. I was also
mindful that I'd soon be speaking to someone not from my natal culture. I'd
probably be speaking to what I called, in those days, a "white" girl.
Someone from a wealthier background, whose family had longer roots in America. Outsiders
called people from my hometown "white trash." I screwed myself up to
do what I always did when speaking to outsiders: I tried to sound dignified.
Not trashy. I spoke in Standard English, which was not my normal speech. No
doubt I sounded as unnatural as I felt.
At the other end of the phone line, I
heard what I expected to hear: the voice of a righteous, officious young
feminist. The kind of enviable, radical cool chick, dressed all in black, who
impressed professors and called them by their first names. The young feminist
at the other end of the line said something I'll never forget. "You don't
sound traumatized to me at all. What you're describing sounds pretty traumatic
but you sound calm and rational. Is this some kind of a prank? I don't think we
can do anything for you."
This young feminist was the Official
Helper Person. The person society had tapped to control the faucet of communal
compassion. I didn't perform the way she wanted. She never said this, but I could
almost hear: "You aren't pathetic enough, incoherent enough, blubbery
enough, to satisfy my Messiah complex. You still retain the ability to speak in
complete sentences; you still exhibit some personal dignity. Be gone." She
judged me, condemned me, and hung up on me. I froze. I just stood there,
staring at the phone for a long time.
Maybe I did it wrong? Maybe I need to do
it better next time?
I scraped myself up off the floor and I
went to one of my professors, a lesbian with a national profile in gay rights. She
has since passed away; the New York Times made sure to call her both
"eloquent" and "compassionate" in its obituary. In our
literature classes, this professor talked as much about left-wing politics as
she talked about any poem by Percy Bysshe Shelley. She had said, in class, if
we, her students, needed help, we should contact her. Again, summoning every
molecule of courage I could, I asked for help. After a rambling, self-involved
peroration that addressed nothing I said, she concluded, leaving me utterly
confused and empty-handed.
I approached administrators. I explained.
My mother's factory and cleaning jobs, my father's job carrying rich men's bags
in a country club, and my job as a nurse's aide had provided the school with my
full tuition for three and a half years. I maintained an A minus average.
Surely the university had some rainy-day funds it could disburse for a student
in my emergency situation? I was told then, and would be told later, in
graduate school, and then still later in my search for a tenure-track job, that
certain goodies, like meal tickets, tuition remission, emergency funds, and
housing, had to be reserved for "underrepresented" populations. I was
white, so I didn't meet the criteria.
I was not able to buy new shoes that
spring. In a pinch, rubber bands can hold shoes together. I ate literal and
metaphorical garbage. I earned straight A grades, graduated magna cum laude,
and got my first post-college teaching job within a couple months of graduation.
For the rest of my life, listening to
sermons from rich, white, liberal friends, I would agree. Absolutely, America
must thoroughly integrate African Americans into mainstream American life. Absolutely,
the fortunate should help the unfortunate; that's one of the foundational
tenets of my religion. That's why I put money in the plate every Sunday and a
big reason I went into teaching.
But, I would add, skin color is not a
foolproof method to separate the fortunate from the unfortunate, and, as Larry Elder argues in a devastating YouTube video, leftist approaches have had limited
success and may have done harm. Let's try conservative solutions, those
proposed by John McWhorter, Shelby Steele, Jason Riley, Jason D. Hill, and Walter E. Williams.
Black conservative solutions focus less on the virtue signaling of munificent white
saviors and more on African Americans' ability to accomplish good things for
themselves.
I would haltingly struggle to cite my
own experience. The leftist, white savior model forces black people to play
small, to beg from whites, the way that I suspected the women's shelter intake
person wanted me to beg. To be pathetic in exchange for help.
My rich, white, liberal friends would
cut me off with the terminal slice of a guillotine. They would take on a tone
that was six parts benevolent patronizing, two parts sneering, and two parts
threat, and would explain to me that my "lived experience" was
invalid because I was blinded by "white privilege" and subconscious "implicit
bias." Until I repented and confessed their gospel, I should be shunned.
Every adult survivor of child abuse is,
I have to guess, haunted by the same realization: I got out, but today, right
now, some kid somewhere is hurting. We adult survivors want to rescue kids. At
one of my first teaching jobs in a majority-minority city, a black student told
me that a member of her family was taking her to the basement and raping her. Using
a leather belt, a parent beat a child on the child's exposed buttocks in front
of me and other students. A young man cried in my arms. His last caring
relative died, he had no idea where his mother was or who his father was, and a
family member had kicked him out of his house. He was sleeping on park benches.
Gang members were threatening him.
I went to my super-leftist and racially
diverse superiors and begged for help. These superiors communicated to me that,
yes, yes, these tales were "Sad, sad, so sad. Just a sign of how
capitalism affects our students." And they did nothing. In each case, I
had to seek outside resources. In the case of the homeless young man, it was
the local, white, police chief who unhesitatingly stepped in.
Compare: after video appeared on social
media of one white student singing a rap song that includes the N-word, there
was an all-day, all-campus conference, the commitment of big dollars to address
"systemic racism," and lengthy, public self-criticism from campus
officials.
I've never responded to any TV show as I
have to "Allen v Farrow," HBO's exhaustive four-and-a-half-hour
documentary, and accompanying podcast, examining then seven-year-old Dylan
Farrow's accusation that her father, Woody Allen, touched her private parts on
August 4, 1992. The documentary plays, for me, as a vindication of every child
who has ever been violated, who has ever been disbelieved, and who has ever
heard that his or her pain does not matter.
Child abuse affects everyone. In 1999,
the New York Times, as part of coverage of welfare reform, reported that "Women who were raped or molested
as children are more likely to become addicted to alcohol or drugs, to suffer
disabling battles with anxiety or depression and to become victims of domestic
violence." These women were also disproportionately "hard cases"
who couldn't quit welfare dependency.
In 2013, the Atlantic reported that "Ninety-five percent of teen
prostitutes and at least one-third of female prisoners were abused as kids.
Sexually abused youth are twice as likely to be arrested for a violent offense
as adults, are at twice the risk for lifelong mental health issues, and are
twice as likely to attempt or commit teen suicide. The list goes on. Incest is
the single biggest commonality between drug and alcohol addiction, mental
illness, teenage and adult prostitution, criminal activity, and eating
disorders."
"Allen v Farrow," given its
thoroughness, its high-profile subjects, and its reservoir of social workers,
prosecutors, and psychologists, presented the opportunity for a national
discussion, something like that kicked off by the 1619 Project, but this time,
devoted to child abuse. How many victims? What are the hidden costs? How do
survivors learn to thrive in spite of their wounds? Finally, those kids out
there who are suffering right now can hope for change. A survivor of
child abuse doesn't have to be humiliated by a woman's shelter intake person. A
girl who is being raped in a basement, or a boy sleeping on park benches, can
assume that officials on a college campus might actually help.
And who might lead that change, but those
self-deputized "kind" and "compassionate" people in charge
of the spigots doling out societal compassion?
"Bob" is a prominent Catholic
author and Facebook friend. Though I don't always agree with Bob, I do value
his Biblical "hunger and thirst after righteousness." Bob had previously lent his
considerable support to Jussie Smollett and Althea Bernstein, two African Americans who made dubious
claims of being victimized by hate crimes, and Nathan Phillips, the so-called Native American elder
who harassed Nick Sandmann and other Catholic schoolboys at the Lincoln
Memorial.
Even so, I admire Bob's use of social
media to urge his thousands of readers to care about the unfortunate. I was,
thus, gut-punched by a recent post. Bob's fans repeatedly begged him to provide
a social media signal boost for "Allen v Farrow"'s
groundbreaking exploration of incest.
Bob publicly announced that he refused
to watch the program. Watching the program would be comparable to being forced
to eat feces. "I don't need to know more. Listening to [incest victims]
recount their trauma [will not] help them or me do anything about it."
I was aghast.
The New York Times, America's
paper of record, declined to post Dylan Farrow's op ed describing her abuse. The
Times has published thousands of articles covering sexual abuse by priests. Nick
Kristof had to post Farrow's op-ed on his blog. Though the Times refused Farrow
space to speak, it granted Woody Allen an op ed in the paper itself.
The Times is the woke-est
publication in the land. The Times published a couple of articles
focused on the quality of films: one devoted to the charming,
sophisticated Manhattan viewers discover in Woody Allen's films, one, classified under "Screenland," devoted to the film Mia Farrow
shot of seven-year-old Dylan describing her allegations against her father. Can
you imagine a Times article discussing the cinematography of the George
Floyd video?
In "Allen v Farrow" itself, a
slew of celebrities are asked about working with Allen. Cate Blanchett said
that the accusation of child abuse is "A family issue and I hope they can
resolve it." Adrien Brody, who has also worked with confessed child rapist
Roman Polanski, said, "People make mistakes. It's not for me to delve into
… It's not my place." Diane Keaton, in an interview with Matt Lauer, ironically enough, said, simply, that
Allen gave her her career, so she was happy to praise him. Would any celebrity
say anything similar if Allen had been accused, not of molesting his own
daughter, but of saying the N-word on August 4, 1992?
The discomfort I felt about how the Times
handled "Allen v Farrow" came into sharp focus when I read a
salute to Metropolitan Opera maestro James Levine, who died March 9, 2021. Anthony Tommasini, the Times classical music
critic, wrote that Levine built the Met's "orchestra into an ensemble that
rivals the world’s great symphonic orchestras … He established a young artists
program that has become a model for companies everywhere."
James Levine leveraged the god-like
power his fans bestowed upon him to coerce boys as young as 15 to service him
sexually. The Met knew all about it and quashed investigations. The Times knew
about it, too. A reader commented, "A multitude of sins are shielded and
enabled by the transactional ethics of access journalism … a host of music
critics knew … Why didn't they turn it over to the investigative desk? … generations
of entertainment journalists, for fear of being frozen out, turned a blind eye
when they should have shone a spotlight. The road to hell is paved with the
blacktop of opportunistic complicity."
Note to journalists: One must get huffy
about sexual abuse in the Catholic Church. One must also remain silent about
celebrity sexual abuse. Some pain matters. Some pain does not matter. On March
16, 2021, a twenty-one year old white man allegedly shot nine people at massage
"spas" in Atlanta Georgia, killing eight. Most of his victims were
Asian-American spa workers. The alleged shooter is said to have blamed his sex
addiction for the shootings. We may eventually discover that he is a white
supremacist, but as of this writing, no such evidence has been advanced.
Mainstream media didn't want to talk
about sex addiction, or misogyny, the proliferation of pornography, or how
dangerous sex work is. It wanted to blame the shootings on Donald Trump and his
"racist" supporters. Whiteness caused the shootings; whiteness that must be destroyed. The left was not just deciding that
some pain matters and some pain does not. It was actively purloining pain from
female victims and apportioning it to the left's project of demonizing all
whites.
Ben Shapiro was fearless. He cited statistics showing that African Americans, not
whites, are disproportionately represented among those committing violent
crimes against Asians. In fact the web had been replete, in recent months, with
reports and videos of African Americans attacking and insulting Asian-Americans.
One video shows Antoine Watson murdering 84-year-old Thai grandfather Vichar Ratanapakdee. Black-Asian tension extends back at
least as far as the L.A. Riots. Shapiro further pointed out that
leftists are happy to discriminate against Asian-Americans when it comes to admission to elite education institutions.
Courageous feminist Phyllis Chesler
insisted, "It’s Not Always About Race." Chesler cited a depressing and
overwhelming fact: "Most of the corpses that litter our American landscape
belong to women … women presumed to be prostitutes." Statistics support Chesler's point. "According to a recent study, 22
percent of confirmed U.S. serial murder victims between 1970 and 2009 were
known prostitutes. And those numbers are climbing – over the last decade, 43
percent of victims were sex workers … Prostitutes make up just over 0.3 percent
of the nation as a whole." More statistics on sex worker victims here.
K. Lee wrote, "Dear White Liberals: Asians Aren’t Your
Pawns." Lee
pointed out that attacks on Asian-Americans had been occurring for months, but
leftists only showed his family concern when the assailant was a white,
Christian male from the South. "You use our victimhood, turning it into
your political gains… You sided with the rich NBA players over the freedom
fighters of Hong Kong. You sided with Disney and NIKE over the lives and the
dignity of the Uighurs in western China. You praised Antifa while they harassed
and doxxed a gay Asian journalist. You sided with the rioters and looters that
stole, robbed, and burned down our shops and businesses all last summer."
Why? Why does the pain of a child raped
by a priest matter, but the pain of a child raped by a celebrity matter less? Why
does a woman killed by a white supremacist matter, but a woman killed by a sex
addict matter less?
Your pain matters if your pain can be weaponized
to denigrate Western Civilization. A child molested by a celebrity says nothing
about how bad Western Civilization is. The molestation of a child by a priest
can be used as proof that the Catholic Church, and, by extension, Christianity,
is hopelessly corrupt and should be jettisoned. Christianity is one of the
foundational pillars of the West. When a white authority figure like a police
officer harms a person of color, that victim demands compassion and attention. Police
officers are metonyms of law and order. A white police officer's corruption and
failure can be used as a symptom of a sick system, one that needs to be
overturned. When my student was sleeping on park benches and living in fear of
gang members, he was being victimized by black people. His pain didn't matter.
His pain could not be used to indict American society.
Similarly, in my recent online discussion with an
Atheist, I insisted
that to understand child sexual abuse in the Catholic Church, one must
understand child sexual abuse period. Yes, talk about priests. And include talk
of celebrities like Jimmy Saville and Michael Jackson who got away with
child sexual abuse in plain sight for decades. Include the high status granted films by Woody
Allen that depict his
obsession with sex between teen girls and old men. The Atheist would have none
of it. He wanted to talk only about abuse in the Catholic Church. That is not a
pro-child or anti-abuse position. That is simply an anti-Catholic position. It
is an exploitation of children's pain to attack an institution one hates.
We're not talking, here, about
compassion. We're talking, rather, about the callous, calculating, systematic,
exploitation and commodification of pain. Like the Hindu goddess Kali and the
Aztec Coatlicue, who both wear necklaces of human skulls, leftists festoon
themselves, ornament themselves, with human suffering, through virtue
signaling. Last summer, they used black squares as social media avatars to show
support for BLM. Now, they use a frame saying "Stop Asian Hate." Note
that neither action requires any work, investment, or preparation, or actually
helps anyone. Always, they select, from life's all too abundant menu, a form of
suffering that can be commodified, not just as an ornament, but as a battering
ram to tear down their ogre, Western Civilization.
The left is not loyal to the tribes it,
however fleetingly, patronizes. Decades ago, the left championed working class
white ethnics like Joe Hill, Emma Goldman, Sacco and Vanzetti, and Elizabeth
Gurley Flynn. The left became disenchanted with white ethnics when too many advanced
through bourgeois values like hard work and obeying the law. Ethnics remained
true to their church and their folk identities, and refused the all-erasing
identity of "worker," as in, "Workers of the world, unite."
The left's betrayal of the working class
is never so clear as in a not-to-be-missed Triggernometry interview. Jodi Shaw was a library worker at elite Smith
College, where tuition, room, and board run $78,000 annually. In July, 2018, Smith
student Oumou Kanoute accused employees of harassing her
because she is black. An investigation found no evidence of racist harassment, but those Kanoute accused, including a
janitor, a police officer, and a cafeteria worker, were damaged by her
allegations. Kanoute doxed the cafeteria worker, who has a chronic illness,
which flared up from the stress of a false allegation. Strangers phoned the
worker at home and told her she should die. She had to be hospitalized, and
when she sought other work, her potential employers identified her as an
alleged racist. Shaw outlines how Smith turned on its innocent workers, out of
fear of its elite, Woke, student body.
The fickle favoritism the left shows
African Americans turns on a dime. Witness Juan Williams, who was betrayed by the left for
saying that he feels anxiety when he sees Muslims on airplanes. More recently,
in March, 2021, Alexi McCammond, a 27-year-old African American journalist,
was fired from her job at Teen Vogue before she could even begin working.
McCammond, when she was a teenager, had posted tweets critical of Asians, including an Asian teaching assistant
who was not helpful to her. Given the timing of the Atlanta spa shooting, in
this instance, leftist fealty to African Americans was trumped by leftist
exploitation of Asians' pain.
Jesus was asked to provide the way to
get to Heaven. He responded that one must love God and love one's neighbor.
Jesus was asked, who is our neighbor? Jesus responded with a parable about a
Samaritan, that is, a member of a despised outsider group. This parable smashed
tribalism in a way that no other text ever has. Its ethic is echoed in Genesis.
One loving God created two ancestors, Adam and Eve, for all mankind. As the
Talmud explains, God did this "so that people should not try to feel
superior to one another and boast of their lineage in this wise: 'I am
descended from a more distinguished Adam than you.'"
Other ethical systems reflect a tribal
mindset. "Be good to people who are members of your tribe; apply a lesser
ethic to those not members of your tribe" is a common precept. Jesus'
words and Genesis are revolutionary.
In his essential book,
"Dominion," Tom Holland, himself an atheist, demonstrates
clearly that the universality of Judeo-Christian ethics remade the world. A key
to this reformation was the Good Samaritan parable. We are not best understood
as members of competing tribes. We are best understood, all of us, as brothers
and sisters, children of a loving God. That concept has fueled liberation
movements across the globe and throughout history for the past two thousand
years. There is no other concept that can compare to it.
We are entering an increasingly secular,
post-Judeo-Christian world. The left has dragged the golden calf of twisted
tribalism to center stage.
There is a velvet rope around the
leftist Kumbaya campfire, and a roided-out bouncer ejects anyone who doesn't
meet the left's criteria. The left picks and chooses which pain, and which
victims, deserve leftist balm.
Why do I vote against my economic
self-interest? The right doesn't lie to me like that telephone feminist at the
women's shelter did. The right doesn't demand that I surrender all dignity
before I deserve compassion. The right doesn't say to me, or, these days, to
anyone, "The color of your skin, and the flavor of your ancestry, and the
skin color of the person hurting you, exempt you from the terms of our
contract. Your coupon for kindness or justice or even just simple human decency
is void."
Danusha Goska is the author of God through Binoculars:
A Hitchhiker at a Monastery