Want
to understand the Catholic Church in which I and my peers grew up?
There's
a great scene in a great movie, 1959's "The Nun's Story." The film is
directed by Fred Zinnemann, who also did "High Noon." It is a classic
cinematic treatment of a woman's real life (It's based on a true story).
Audrey
Hepburn plays Sister Luke, the daughter of a famous surgeon. Her only goal in
life is to become a nun and a nurse who does medical work in the Belgian Congo.
She enters a convent and gives up everything – her hair, her name, her
memories. She becomes a kind of machine. The moment the bell rings her out of
bed in the morning, she must fall to her knees and begin praying. She can't
look at her face in a mirror. She can't reminisce. All she is allowed to have
is her power to serve.
She's
not even allowed to have her excellent mind. Her Mother Superior orders her to
fail her medical exam as an exercise is self-abnegation.
Audrey
Hepburn played many pixie, gamine roles where she was somehow always falling in
love with a man much older than she was – Humphrey Bogart, Gary Cooper, Fred
Astaire (!!!). Filmmakers recognized that Hepburn, youthful as she was, had a
gravitas that few age-peer male actors could match. So they hitched her to
grandpa.
In
"The Nun's Story," though, Hepburn plays a very, very smart nun so
powerfully you feel you are watching a documentary. As Sister Luke sits down to
take her oral medical exam, she struggles to give incorrect answers to
questions. Good Catholic girls are obedient, and she wishes to obey her mother
superior.
The
examiners are astounded. They know this woman. They know her mind could dance
rings around these questions.
As
the exam progresses, and as the viewer's hands knot up in her lap, something
gives. Sister Luke begins to give all the correct answers to the questions. I
can hear Hepburn even now; the scene is so powerful I remember the replies. She
talks about where malaria hides in the body of its vector, the mosquito.
Sister
Luke disobeyed Mother Superior. She is guilty of the sin of pride – she showed
off her great mind. While Sister Luke's intellectual inferiors are given
coveted assignments to serve in the Belgian Congo, Sister Luke is punished for
passing the medical exam with such high marks. She is sent to an insane asylum.
There she will work with the most dangerous patients. One of them physically
assaults her.
That's
the Catholic Church in which I grew up. One in which one must not be proud,
especially if one is a woman. One in which a woman may not be smart. That was
for boys. One in which you were punished for knowing something your superiors
did not know, especially if you were female.
That
Catholic Church is not dead and gone. When I interact, not with the folks in
the pews, but with anyone – anyone – who has any status, title, or authority in
the church – I constantly feel that I am to shut up and let the superiors do
it. Whatever it is. And to hold them in awe, and to erase my female self.
Even
when I was a kid, I recognized that this was sick and wrong. If I ever do leave
the Catholic Church, misogyny will be the primary reason.
Yes,
a Mother Teresa can obtain superstar status. But a little girl, or her grown-up
peer, who knows the answer that her superior does not know is still persona non
grata, in my experience.
Jesus
does say a lot about humility. "The last shall be first and the first
shall be last." But he never ordered women to act dumb. But he also did
not hide his own intelligence, and he was happy to have intelligent
conversations with women.
His
longest conversation, and it is a deep one spanning society and theology, is
with a woman – the Samaritan woman at the well. He also discussed heavy matters
with Mary, and chided Martha when she gave her sister Mary a hard time about
conversing with Jesus when there was housework to be done. Jesus said, "No
one who lights a lamp hides it away or places it under a bushel basket, but on
a lampstand so that those who enter might see the light."
People
like Sister Luke's Mother Superior told generations of girls to hide their
light under a bushel basket.
Their
job is to shine.
Today's
Lent meditation is brought to you by the eight of coins, a card that shows an
industrious person creating – and proudly displaying his creations for the
world to see, assess, and perhaps benefit by.
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