How to Explain the Evil of Reinhard Heydrich?
Who's the most popular Nazi? I thought
of asking this as a poll question on Facebook, but I've been in Facebook jail
so many times I dared not risk it. I turned to Google. Adolf Hitler gets
thirty-one million hits. Eva Braun, two and a half million. Joseph Goebbels,
two and a quarter million. Heinrich Himmler, almost two million. Albert Speer,
a million and a half. Hitler's dog Blondi, 638 thousand. Reinhard Heydrich is
just slightly more represented in my Google search than Hitler's dog. Heydrich
racks up 787 thousand hits. The numbers change day by day, but the proportions
remain about the same. Heydrich's relatively low profile astounds me, given the
immense evil this – entity – I can barely stand to call him a "man" –
wreaked upon the world.
The Hangman and His Wife: The Life and Death of Reinhard Heydrich, is a May, 2022 book published by Knopf. The book is 656 pages long, with 570 pages of narrative followed by notes and an index. There are 110 black-and-white photographs. Author Nancy Dougherty knew Lina Heydrich, Reinhard Heydrich's widow, and interviewed her for the book, as well as other surviving Nazis, including Albert Speer. Dougherty is a gifted writer who can report horror in beautiful prose. I'd recommend this book to anyone curious about Nazism or simply about human evil.
I grew up with parents whose close
intimates were affected by Nazism. In addition to the incalculable damage the
Nazis did to Poland and Czechoslovakia, close family members and friends of my
parents were imprisoned and killed, including a Jewish boy who saved my
mother's life when, as a child, she almost drowned in the River Nitra. Like
many children of such parents, I grew up with a sense that the world can be a
scary and unjust place, and a drive to understand, and to resist, terror and
injustice.
I adopted the explanation of many.
Germany suffered shock after shock, starting with mass death in the trenches of
World War I, and continuing with the Versailles Treaty and all of its
ramifications, the Depression, rapid modernization in the Weimar Republic, and
the violent and terrifying rise of Soviet Communism. Even before all this, in
the nineteenth century, Romantic Nationalism, Scientific Racism, inspired by
Social Darwinism, rising atheism, and Neo-Paganism inadvertently provided a
theoretical grounding for Nazism. Hitler was ruthless and crafty; Joseph Goebbels
and Julius Streicher brainwashed the masses expertly through media. Etc, etc,
etc. Those explanations for Nazism work well enough. But then you get to
Reinhard Heydrich.
In spite of his relatively low profile,
Heydrich is an inescapable figure. After reading Dougherty's biography of him,
I have to wonder how successful Nazism would have been had he never existed. He
has been called the architect of the Holocaust. That would be enough to damn
any soul to Hell for all eternity, but Heydrich was an intelligent, energetic,
driven, high achiever. He was chief of the Gestapo, Kripo, and SD – the
intelligence agency of the SS. He issued the decree mandating that Jews wear a
badge in the shape of a yellow Star of David. He chaired the Wannsee Conference
which laid out the "Final Solution of the Jewish Question." He was
Heinrich Himmler's underling and Adolf Eichmann's boss. He gave the world the Einsatzgruppen,
squads that followed German troops, and shot unarmed civilians perceived to
be a potential enemy of the Third Reich. Einsatzgruppen killed two
million people, including 1.3 million Jews, and also tens of thousands of
Poles, including priests, teachers, and professors, and also handicapped and
disabled Poles. Communists and Roma, or Gypsies, were also killed.
Hitler commanded, "Whatever we can
find of an upper class in Poland is to be liquidated" and "The
increased severity of the racial struggle permits of no legal restrictions.
Jews, Poles, and similar trash are to be cleared from the old and new Reich
territories." Heydrich delivered. He reported, "Of the Polish upper
classes in the occupied territories, only a maximum of 3 percent is still
present." Heydrich became a pilot and flew reconnaissance and combat
missions over Poland. His plane crashed and he had to make his way back to
German lines. Hitler disapproved of this; had Heydrich been captured, the Reich
might never recover from his loss. He was also sexually omnivorous, and he commandeered
a brothel, Salon Kitty, in order to surveil his fellow Nazis as they made use
of prostitute spies.
In 1935, Reich Interior Minister Wilhelm
Frick argued that opposition to the Nazis had been crushed. There was no longer
any need for the SS to have the extra-legal powers of repression that it
commanded. Frick's argument did not carry the day. Hitler appointed Himmler
head of the police in 1936. Himmler and Heydrich pushed for a permanent police
state. Heydrich advanced this victory for repression by publishing, in 1935, a
series of articles for Das Schwarze Korps, the SS journal. These
articles were republished in 1936 as The Transformation of Our Struggle. Jews,
Freemasons, and Catholic priests were Germany's eternal enemies, Heydrich
wrote, and Germany would have to struggle long and hard to defeat them. Heydrich
darkly warned that Nazism's victory, Hitler's control, and the crushing of the
opposition shouldn't fool Germans into complacency. To justify Germany's
long-term struggle against Jews, Freemasons, and priests, Heydrich cited a
perverted conception of Darwinian "survival of the fittest."
Heydrich's articles were carefully honed
propaganda not just for repression of all Germans in a permanent totalitarian
state; they also foreshadowed the upcoming Holocaust. Did Heydrich believe a
word he wrote? We can't know. But this much is certain. In publishing these
propaganda articles, Heydrich protected and advanced his own personal power as
chief of the Reich Security Main Office.
As Reinhard Heydrich was rising in the
SS, his parents were facing penury and possible starvation. During the depths
of the Depression, in 1933, after his father suffered a stroke, Heydrich's
parents repeatedly begged him for a loan. He turned them down. Finally, he
presented them with a contract outlining how he expected them to behave if he
did give them a fraction of the money requested. Apparently they never signed
their son's humiliating contract.
Clearly, Reinhard Heydrich was an evil
man. And yet, while reading Dougherty's compelling, disturbing, and
unforgettable biography, I did not feel normal human anger at Heydrich. This is
because I could never feel that he was a human being. I felt I was reading
about an insect. Insects and other parasites can do unspeakable things to a
human body, but we don't tend to get angry at them. The mosquitos that transmit
malaria that has killed millions are just little machines programmed by nature functioning
without conscience. I know that I should say that I recognize that Heydrich was
a human being in the same way that I am a human being, but even as I say that,
I don't believe it.
Heydrich, in spite of the ambitious
trajectory of his life, may have been himself as little more than a bug acting
according to a plan he never wrote. According to one story, one of his final
comments was a quote from one of his composer father's operas. "The world
is just a barrel-organ which the Lord God turns Himself. We all have to dance to
the tune which is already on the drum." Maybe, had he survived, he would
have offered that defense at Nuremberg.
Dougherty's book, interweaving, as it
does, conversations with Heydrich's widow, includes Heydrich the man. Heydrich,
a loving spouse who held his wife's hand as she underwent the agonized pangs of
childbirth. Heydrich, newly assigned to Prague, breathing a sigh of relief that
his daily tasks demanded sending many fewer innocent civilians to their sadistic
deaths. Heydrich, trying to win hearts and minds, "generously"
increasing Czechs' fat ration. Heydrich, the sensitive musician who played
violin so well his listeners were moved to tears. Heydrich, the stiff, awkward
youth, teased and ostracized by his peers. Heydrich, the denizen of Hell, awash
in the blood of millions.
Heydrich's nicknames include, "The
blond beast," "The young, evil, god of death," "The Butcher
of Prague," "The Hangman," and "The Man with the Iron
Heart." That "iron heart" sobriquet came from Hitler himself. He
was "a professional criminal of Luciferian magnitude," and "the
king of the underworld," "the puppet master of the Third Reich,"
"the murderer-in-chief," and "the hidden pivot around which the
Nazi regime revolved." He was, according to Himmler, "a walking file
cabinet" jam packed with information he used to destroy lives. Werner
Best, a fellow Nazi, called Heydrich "the most demonic personality"
of all Nazi leaders. A Nazi defector called Heydrich "the all-powerful
power behind the throne." Then there is this, in German, "Himmlers
Hirn heisst Heydrich" or "Himmler's brain is called
Heydrich." If you are thinking, "Gee, those are cool nicknames,"
you are, alas, not alone. Marduk, a Swedish, allegedly neo-Nazi, heavy metal
band produced a song celebrating Heydrich; you can sample its cacophony here.
Young men seeking a macho role model
might be attracted to the "strength" in Heydrich's nicknames. In fact
there is no manly strength to be found behind this curtain. See this
photo. A uniformed Nazi soldier shoots an unarmed Jewish mother attempting
to protect her child. As Wikipedia explains, "The photo was mailed from
the Eastern Front to Germany and intercepted at a Warsaw post office by a
member of the Polish resistance collecting documentation on Nazi war
crimes." Or think of this
photo. Einsatzgruppen march Polish women to their deaths. The last
woman, Janina Skalska, appears to be barefoot, and wearing a bathrobe. This
photo records Germans, under SS command, murdering Father Piotr Sosnowski.
Sosnowski stares at his executioners. He has no weapons.
Invading Nazis shooting Jewish men,
women, and children, and burying them in mass graves, murdering barefoot Polish
women in housecoats, unarmed Catholic priests, and physically handicapped,
institutionalized patients: none of this has anything to do with strength or
courage or worthy manhood. The Einsatzgruppen knew they were doing
wrong. They complained; they got drunk; they had nightmares and nervous
breakdowns; they sometimes broke down and shot each other to death. But they
kept on committing war crimes, because they were too cowardly and weak to
refuse.
Can we explain Heydrich's evil by saying
that he was steeped in, and blinded by, hatred? No, we can't. Heydrich's father
Bruno interacted with Jews in a collegial way. Jewish students attended his
music conservatory. A Jewish merchant stored goods in the Heydrich school.
Young Reinhard was friends with the son of the Jewish cantor, Abraham
Lichtenstein. Heydrich would later claim, possibly falsely, to have joined
anti-Semitic organizations in his youth. Scholars guess that he made these
claims to boost his Nazi credentials, since he joined the Party relatively late
and to advance his own career.
Further, Heydrich persecuted Catholics
and Freemasons. Heydrich's father was a Freemason. His mother was a devout
Catholic. She objected to her son's plan to arrest the anti-Nazi Bishop Galen.
After this falling out, Dougherty writes, mother and son rarely spoke.
Heydrich's mother starved to death during post-World-War-II food shortages in
Germany. She was just one of millions of Germans destroyed by the ideology that
was meant to elevate Germans for the next thousand years.
Heydrich began, not by killing persons
demonized by the Nazis, including Jews or Poles, but his fellow Germans. He co-organized
the Night of the Long Knives. Germans killed Germans. Nazis killed Nazis. Men
who had marched and fought together murdered each other for nothing but
personal gain. Hundreds, perhaps as many as a thousand, died; a thousand were
arrested. Heydrich sent his fellow Germans to concentration camps. Until 1938,
most concentration camp inmates were German Aryans.
The explanations that help us to file
away other Nazis don't help us with Heydrich. Hitler was so over the top that
it's easy to write him off as insane. Mein Kampf and the many video and
audio recordings of his speeches document Hitler's sick mind. Himmler, in his
speeches in occupied Poznan, provided his own justification for the evil deeds
he commanded. Eichmann testified at his 1961 trial, and, in May, 2022, an
Israeli documentary, The Devil's Confession, was released that includes
Eichmann speaking to a journalist in 1957. Goebbels kept a diary detailing what
a sick SOB he was, and his unhinged speeches are also on video. Heydrich died
relatively young and suddenly and we don't have his autobiography in speeches,
diary entries, or trial testimony.
Unlike Hitler, Heydrich was not a
soldier in World War I. Unlike Himmler, he was not invested in Nazi
Neo-Paganism. Unlike Goebbels, there's no proof that he was an anti-Semite
before joining the Nazi Party. Heydrich didn't join the Party until 1931, as
he was looking for something to replace his lost naval career. He joined too
late for him to be considered an "Old Fighter," that is the true
believers who had joined the Party early on before it gained power.
His widow insists that when she met him
he was apolitical. In fact she says he never read Mein Kampf, and he
spoke disparagingly of Hitler and Goebbels. Unlike Eichmann, he was not
a natural beta male. Eichmann would later offer his own lesser status as his
alibi. "I was a mere instrument in
the hands of the leaders. I was not a responsible leader, and as such do not
feel myself guilty." (Eichmann was, of course, lying. See here
and here.) Heydrich
was no tool in anyone's hand. How did Heydrich become Heydrich?
Here's one potential origin story. One
of the odder aspects of this incomprehensible life: there were persistent,
unsubstantiated rumors, throughout his life, that Heydrich had Jewish ancestry.
These rumors existed side-by-side with assessments of Heydrich as the
picture-perfect Aryan. The absurdity of this contradiction is just one of the
many absurdities of Nazism. People theorize that these rumors gave Hitler power
over Heydrich. Others theorize that Heydrich was trying to prove how very not
Jewish he was. This is all guesswork.
Heydrich's childhood was comfortable.
His parents were respected and well off. His father Bruno was an opera singer,
composer, and founder of the Halle Conservatory. His mother taught piano.
Little Heydrich, it was assumed, would take his father's place someday, and he
was taught music early. Heydrich was a good student and athlete. He was a
fencer and swimmer. He was teased, though, for his high-pitched voice and
alleged Jewishness. Kids called him "Moses."
Given his age, he missed participation
in the irrational bloodletting of World War I. Over two million Germans died,
constituting between three and four percent of the population. At just one
battle, Verdun, 143,000 German soldiers died. But young Heinrich did not miss
the bloodletting at home after the war. Extremists on the right and left were
fighting it out in the streets. Fifteen-year-old Heydrich joined the Freikorps
to defend conservative German nationalism. After that, wild inflation struck,
and his family's fortunes, along with those of millions of other Germans, diminished.
Heydrich, abandoning hopes for a career
in music, joined the navy. On paper, he did well, but, according to later
reports, he had no friends. His fellow navy men regarded him as too refined;
some would later say that he struck them as a "liberal." He was seen
as gangly, womanly, and effeminate. The rumor of Jewish ancestry clung to him. His
laugh, they mocked, sounded like a bleating goat. Ridicule even appeared in the
ship newspaper. His violin was his only friend. When discussing music, "he
changed completely."
In the navy, Heydrich established what
would be a lifelong pattern of sexual promiscuity. He "compromised" one
woman and then proposed marriage to another, Lina von Osten. As the
"von" suggests, Lina was from an aristocratic, if declassee, background.
Heydrich was kicked out of the navy for conduct unbecoming an officer. He was
crushed; he retreated to his room and cried for days. Since Heydrich now had no
income or position, Lina's family balked at the couple's marriage plans.
At the time, six million German men were
out of work. But Heydrich's position was not as desperate as many others'. Scholar
Robert Gerwarth published Hitler's
Hangman, a well-received biography of Heydrich in 2011. Gerwarth
says that Heydrich could have worked as a sailing instructor in a yacht club.
(Heydrich the sailing instructor: dark comedy gold.) Heydrich rejected such
work. He didn't want to become a "sailing servant to the children of the
rich."
Heydrich's fiancée was a committed Nazi.
His godmother was able to get him an interview with Himmler. Himmler gave
Heydrich twenty minutes to sketch a plan for counterintelligence. Heydrich had
no experience with espionage. This did not deter him. Heydrich had been a
reader of American and British spy novels. He used what he had gathered from
reading authors like Sir Arthur Conan Doyle to prepare the document Himmler
requested. Himmler was impressed both by Heydrich's proposal and by Heydrich's
height of 6'3", his blue eyes, blond hair, and athleticism. Himmler hired,
and swiftly promoted, Heydrich.
Hitler promoted rivalries unto death
among his personnel; such rivalries, he believed, like Darwinian "survival
of the fittest" would result in the strongest man rising to the top. Dougherty
quotes a Nazi, "Everyone arrests everyone. Everyone threatens everyone
with arrest. Everyone threatens everyone with Dachau." In this competitive
arena, Himmler and Heydrich were one of the few successful partnerships. Lina
would later say that Heydrich dealt with Himmler "by imagining him in his
underwear."
So maybe this is what happened. Young
Heydrich grew up comfortable, sheltered, and respected. One catastrophe after
another rocked his world. He witnessed and participated in chaotic violence
between Soviet-backed leftists and right-wing German nationalists. He fixated
on the communist menace from the east; Hitler would conflate communism with
Judaism and Jews. Heydrich was intelligent, ambitious, and his parents' first
born son. He blew it in the navy, and he saw his new job with the SS as his
last chance. The niche he stumbled into was perfect for his peculiar skills,
including a memory that was such a steel trap that after he used a phone number
once, he never forgot it. He was a spectacularly successful mass murderer and
he enjoyed the perks of success. Does that narrative explain Heydrich?
Not for this reader. There were lots of
intelligent and ambitious people in Germany. Abwehr chief Wilhelm Canaris,
Claus von Stauffenberg, and Erwin Rommel were also ambitious, intelligent men.
They were also higher ups in Nazi Germany. They resisted Hitler. Yes, they all were
all killed, but Heydrich was killed, as well. Heydrich died without honor.
Perhaps genes explains evil like
Heydrich's. Perhaps, no less than an insect that wreaks havoc mindlessly,
Heydrich didn't really realize what he was doing. Alas, no. Even the comfort of
concluding that he didn't see the difference between good and evil just doesn't
work. According to author Paul
Donnelley, Heydrich went out of his way to spare the life of Paul Sommer, a
German-Jewish fencer, and the Polish Olympic fencing team. In response to a query
from me, Prof. Gerwarth wrote, "Unfortunately I have not seen any evidence
of that. And in some ways, it would be out of character – he was not a
particularly 'sentimental' type of person." Lina, his widow, though,
reports that after he took up his station in Prague, he was relieved that his
daily tasks did not involve sending so many innocent civilians to their
sadistic deaths. Heydrich's nephew reports that Heydrich would release
prisoners when requested to do so by his younger brother, Heinz. In other
words, there are indications that Heydrich had some sense of right and wrong.
An anecdote in Dougherty's biography, if
correct, is one of many almost unbelievable biographical details about Reinhard
Heydrich. After Heydrich was assassinated, Heinz received a large amount of his
brother's private papers. He burned them. He later killed himself. The story is
that after he was exposed to his brother's private papers, Heinz Heydrich saved
as many Jews as he could. He realized that he was about to be investigated, and
ended his own life. One of Heydrich's daughters, Silke, would fall in love with
a Jew. We can't blame Heydrich's evil on bad genes.
Author Nancy Dougherty undertook to
write a biography of Heydrich because she wanted to understand evil. In 1950,
when she was eleven years old, she traveled with her parents to Cologne,
Germany, and was shocked by the damage she saw. She worked for years on Heydrich's
biography until she was overcome by Alzheimer's disease. She died in 2013. Her
husband James asked Christopher Lehman-Haupt to produce a final edit of
Dougherty's manuscript. Lehman-Haupt was an author and New York Times book
reviewer. Like Dougherty, he had also traveled to war-ravaged Germany as a
child. His father had German-Jewish ancestry. Lehman-Haupt finished most of the
editing before he died in 2018.
In a recent interview, James Dougherty
said that his late wife was "fascinated" and "intrigued" by
a Nazi who wasn't "street trash." James said, "Don't dismiss
Nazis as fringe characters. They were human beings like you and me in different
circumstances."
In his Foreword, Christopher
Lehmann-Haupt sounds less like James Dougherty; he appears to have shared my
incomprehension. "One searches in vain for a rational explanation of
Heydrich's descent into evil. No single biographical fragment satisfies. Not
his awkward, ugly duckling childhood and adolescence. Not the sudden flameout
of his promising naval career. Not the seemingly hopeless job prospects he
suddenly faced in 1931 … Not the attraction to Nazism of his fiancée … not the
rumor of a strain of Jewishness … Not even the inclination in the German
character to excel at any job … Heydrich's monstrosity surpasses experiential
evidence … one sees him falling through some trapdoor in his mind."
Reinhard Heydrich was assassinated by
Jan Kubis, a Czech, a Jozef Gabcik, a Slovak. They attacked on May 27, 1942.
Heydrich died on June 4. He was the most prominent Nazi to be assassinated
during the war.
One might think that one Slovak and one
Czech armed with only one gun and one hand grenade assassinating such an
important Nazi would be an uncomplicated cause for joy. In the penultimate
scene of his 2009 film, Inglourious Basterds, Quentin Tarantino gives
his audience the vicarious, ahistorical thrill of watching Hitler and Goebbels
being shot to death with machine guns. Who wouldn't want to be pulling that
trigger? Alas, like so many war stories, this one is not as straightforward as
it is sometimes presented. Heydrich was, of course, just replaced with another
Nazi. And of course the Nazis famously wiped out an entire village, Lidice, in
retaliation, in addition to other retaliatory massacres, tortures, and
imprisonments.
Other ends may have been achieved,
though. Heydrich had been using a carrot-and-stick approach that seemed to be working
in the Nazis' favor. He was scheduled to be moved to France, where he'd use the
same methods. Perhaps eliminating Heydrich from France advanced the Allied
cause. Also, Heydrich's assassination communicated to the Nazis that they were
not invincible. One of the more Machiavellian goals of the assassination was to
rouse the Czech population, that had not mounted a resistance that compared to,
say, that of the Poles. The idea was that the Nazis would punish the Czechs,
and that that punishment would rouse them to action, or at least make
collaboration less palatable. Also, Czechs and Slovaks opposed to the Nazis
wanted to make their opposition crystal clear. They didn't want the Allies, in
the post-war map-drawing, to reconfirm the Allies' shameful betrayal of
Czechoslovakia in the Munich Agreement of 1938.
Possibly the weirdest aspect of the
assassination is that Heydrich may not have been finished off by Jan Kubis and
Jozef Gabcik at all. Heydrich may have been assassinated by Himmler. Gabcik's
Sten submachine gun jammed. Heydrich stood and pointed his Luger pistol at
Gabcik. Jan Kubis threw a grenade at Heydrich's Mercedes Cabriolet. Heydrich
was wounded and taken to a hospital. He was treated by Himmler's doctor. Albert
Speer told Dougherty that he thought it was "quite possible" that
this doctor ended Heydrich's life.
Folklore scholars say that authentic
folktales contain few adjectives. The audience is not told that Jack is
"resourceful" or "brave" or "plucky." Rather, the
folktale simply recounts Jack's actions that demonstrate how resourceful,
brave, and plucky he is. Reinhard Heydrich could play violin so well he made
the hearer weep. He had decent parents who raised him well. He had a happy
marriage and he loved his kids. We don't have much of his writing or his
speeches. We do, though, have the records of his actions. We may not know why
he was so evil, although personal ambition clearly was one paving stone on his
highway to Hell. But that he was one of the most evil people who has ever
lived, of that there is no doubt.
Danusha Goska is the author of God through Binoculars: A Hitchhiker at a Monastery
Dr Goska:
ReplyDeleteThere was something I wanted to ask while I was on BIEGANSKI and other things claimed my attention and concentration while in the comments.
It is about the Hebrew on Heydrich's image.
I am wondering if those are the Names that Must Be Remembered?
[which is to say - at least a sampling of the 6 million...]
Or were there orders that he had given and written?
So here is what I worked out so far:
There is a Hebrew word that looks a lot like the English word "Mammon".
And if some of the other readers on SAVE SEND DELETE know Hebrew better than I [this is highly likely!] it would be very helpful.
Adelaide Dupont
I'm hoping that those words say, more or less, may his name be erased.
DeleteThank you!
DeleteI know the "May he" construction in Hebrew.
[at least in talk if not reading and writing].
[and some of the positive words/phrases like "May his name be used for a blessing" - I hope it didn't turn out to be THAT - like so many verses and short writings in tattoo style].
His name is already half-erased 'round here - if only because I cannot spell it.
Which is to say: I get a blank around Hey...
But a thing - or a person - does not have to have a name to have power and control.
Even though the United Nations say: we all have a right to a name and an identity.
[That was the Rights of the Child back in 1988 and 1989 in some really good children's books using the United Nations principles/guidelines].
So I would go and see if it looked like "Yimakh shemo" [the Romanisation of the Hebrew.
And this is Hebrew print - not Hebrew cursive.
It does make it clear that RH is to be considered an enemy of the people from this time forward.
Also the design elements - of "Remember their names" in English - and "May his name be erased" in Hebrew - there is a contrast of sentiment which draws the viewer in.
[or may have them recoil in disgust and repugnance].
Reading the Popular Culture section - Herzog by Saul Bellow is mentioned.
There is an article in the Saturday Paper about an Australian author - Robert Drewe - being majorly influenced by this book when he was 27 years old.
{The Saturday Paper is published by Schwartz Publishing. I first had contact with the press in 2002 when I read ODD GIRL OUT in its Australian printing and then I read their magazines THE MONTHLY - since its founding in 2005 - and some QUARTERLY ESSAYS}.
And there is a whole generation of people - if not two - who know that "Fear of a name is fear of the thing itself".
[also JESUS is one of the names to be erased!]
It is probably better to remember people for what they did and the impact they had on the world.
If you can't erase the NAME and the MEMORY - the memory tends to go by the by - the name for which the experiences stand...
Adelaide Dupont